Leadership Lessons from the BCS Championship Game

13 01 2010

AP Photo/Chris CarlsonIt’s been a week since my life-long college football favorite, the University of Alabama Crimson Tide, won the BCS national championship game. Given a “head start” through a couple of uncharacteristic early ‘Bama mistakes, Texas made a strong run at the Crimson Tide in the latter part of the second half, only to fall short of a team that clearly was better than a Colt-less Longhorn squad. The highlights of the game are seen in the video below.

Would the game have been different if McCoy had been healthy and able to play the entire game? Certainly. Would it have changed the outcome of the game? It’s impossible to know. For that reason, I don’t buy into the speculation that surrounds what might have been. Football, like life, is about what “is;” it requires you face the circumstances at hand head on, come what may.

With that in mind as I’ve reflected on the game over the past week, I’ve come away with some thoughts that–regardless of which team you were rooting for in the game–reflect the role of leadership in life.

Leadership matters, for everyone concerns. When Colt McCoy went down to an injury early in the game, the Texas team spent the remainder of the first half in stunned disbelief. And without their leader, who remained in the locker room, they clearly didn’t know what to do. Neither did they have another leader step up to assume that leadership mantle. The result was an insurmountable 24-6 deficit at halftime, largely the result (in my opinion) of an absence of leadership. Simply McCoy’s resulting presence on the sideline in the second half seemed to evoke confidence, courage and belief that they as a team could still make a difference.

Teams need to be prepared for the absence of the leader. In the book The Elephant in the Boardroom, the authors Carolyn Weese and Russell Crabtree, suggest that the one obvious truth that no pastor/leader and board wants to admit is that, unless Jesus returns, sooner or later that leader will be replaced by another. The thesis of his argument is that, given this reality, all churches (and teams) need to be prepared for that eventuality. The Texas Longhorns weren’t prepared for that reality to happen sooner than they expected, and as a result, it cost them dearly. It might have been a “difference-maker.”

AP Photo/Jae Hong

Character is the most important quality in a leader. If you saw the interview of Colt McCoy after the game, or have heard any previous interview he has done, than no doubt you’ve come away impressed by the quality and character of this young man. He is strong, principled, confident but humble, and has an incredibly “large” perspective on life. It is easy to see why his team, their fans and so many others feel so passionately about him–he leads from the inside out, from who he is, not simply what he does. It makes all the difference, not only in the quality of his work, but through his example, in the followers he leads.

All leaders have to face adversity. McCoy, and others including Ingram in this game–all leaders face difficulty. This hardship takes various forms; sometimes it’s physical pain, other times, emotional distress. Often it’s an visible and vocal opponent; at other times, there are shadowy and almost unnoticeable obstacles. But leaders endure, they persevere. They never give up, they never stop leading. Whether in the game or on the sidelines, they understand the importance of their role and by example they inspire others to overcome.

Distraction can be fatal. Now I don’t know the following to be true in the game, but it’s quite possible that for a while much of the Texas team worried more about the injury to Colt than they were concerned about the game. In life, distractions that take our eyes off “the prize” can be fatal. This is not to say that Colt the person isn’t more important that the game, even a championship game. He most obviously is. But when any team, or person, allows distraction to invade their vision, then focus is impossible and the results will suffer. Discipline, a necessary quality in leadership, is critical to success.

There’s nothing better than on-the-job training. If you watched the game then you know that true freshman Garrett Gilbert, McCoy’s quarterback-replacement, grew in confidence and ability as the game wore on. You could “see” it! It was impressive how much he learned in the course of the game and how he maximized that learning on the field. With McCoy, his mentor, urging him on from the sidelines, he improved and showed marvelous flashes of brilliance under the brightest lights in the college football world. While he wasn’t a winner on the field that night, he and his team are subsequent winners because of that priceless experience. Nothing can replace it! Leaders don’t lead in the classroom or the locker room; they lead on the field.

In the final analysis, Jesus Christ is the most important thing of all. Yes, there was a game last week. A big game. My team won. I’m happy about that. I’ve waited 17 years since the last time we won the national championship. But better by far than all that, it is a joy to watch leaders stand up, like Colt McCoy did that night–like many times before–and use their leadership and their lives to point people unashamedly to Jesus Christ. That’s class. That’s strength. That’s character. Most importantly, that the best of what leadership had to offer anyone else. Check out what Colt has to say about his life, his leadership and his Lord at this link.

So congrats to the Alabama Crimson Tide for a great game and a history-making season. But congrats also to Colt McCoy and the Texas Longhorns, who’ve reminded us about leadership and what really, ultimately matters in life.





Highlights of 2009

31 12 2009

Well, in the next few hours 2009 will be coming to an end. Many are happy to see it go: economic hardships, family adversary and lots of transition has been a part of life for almost everyone I know. Our family felt the brunt of all these situations, too. But the one constant is the midst of all the change and difficulties has been JESUS! He is “the same yesterday, today and forever” (Hebrews 13.8) and for that, I am eternally grateful.

As we end of the year, it’s time for my reflections on 2009 with my second annual “Highlights” list of what I personally experienced. Mind you, these “bests” are not a critic’s view, they are my personal view on what meant most to me during the past twelve months.

BEST SPIRITUAL EXPERIENCE: A spontaneous call to prayer at the end of a worship service early in the year at Glen Burnie Baptist Church. With the current secretary (at the time) fighting for her life in the hospital, almost the entire church came to the altar-area of the sanctuary to beg God for her life and health. It was a deeply moving time for all there. The family credits this experience as a “turning point” in her physical condition. (She is well and back in regular church life now, praise God!)

BEST LEARNING EXPERIENCE: Core Coaching Competencies, a week-long training experience facilitated by CRM. Actually there were six follow-up conference call meetings too, along with field work assignments. This intensive, comprehensive coaching training was the best BY FAR that I’ve ever experienced (and I’ve been to 3-4 others in the past, as well). I would highly recommend it to anyone who is serious about life or ministry coaching. The only drawback: it’s held in the United States only once a year.

BEST CHURCH PLANTING MOMENT: Awarded “First In Enlistment” by the North American Mission Board of the Southern Baptist Convention. This recognition was unexpected, but certainly appreciated. It acknowledged the hard work and relational value our organization has effectively placed on discovering and recruiting strong church planters for this significant region of the world. And what a difference they’ve made! We’ve finished the best church planting decade in our history and have many other candidates eager to live out their calling here in the days ahead. Kudos go to all of our team members for making this a reality.

BEST BOOK I READ: A tough one. Probably, Leadership Coaching by Tony Stoltzfus. I must admit, having read many coaching books, that I was not expecting much when I opened the cover. But the book pulled me in and shared with me information and skills I’d not encountered elsewhere in my reading on the topic. It’s the first book on the topic I’d recommend to anyone else interested in this topic. A close second: probably Confessions of a Pastor, by Craig Groeschel.

BEST NEW DISCOVERY: Tokbox.com. This FREE online video communication tool became a regular part of our meeting routine with planters early in the year. (It can host up to twenty people visually at one time.) Later in the year it expanded to strategy and staff team meetings too. With time and money being such important commodities these days, I feel we’ll be doing even more of this in the days to come.

BEST MOVIE I SAW IN A THEATER: Star Trek. Yes, I’m a “trekkie.” As such, I went into the theater with great skepticism, but came out impressed and tremendously satisfied with what J.J. Abrams has done with the franchise. High action and interesting character development were found throughout the movie. A close second: The Blind Side. I was deeply moved in a totally different way by this movie. Sandra Bullock and the rest of the cast were amazing in a remarkable story of Michael Oher, who I’m proud to say plays for the Baltimore Ravens.

BEST DVD I SAW: Bedtime Stories. Yeah, I know, it’s supposed to be a “kid’s movie.” So, now my secret is out: I like most kid movies. This one was entertaining, novel and warm. The “giant bug” I could have done without, but all in all, I thought it was great fun. In fact, it’s the only rented movie I watched twice within 24 hours this year.

BEST NEW TV SHOW: This one is also a tough category for me this year. I had high expectations with Flash Forward at the start of the season, but it has not impacted me as I had expected. V was good but had a limited four-week run, so I disqualify it from mention here. My vote goes to Lie to Me which I think premiered briefly in the spring, then returned for a full season in the fall. It’s premise is intriguing and the characters still unfolding.

BEST MUSICAL EXPERIENCE: Chris Tomlin (and Israel Houghton) concert in Baltimore. Tomlin has been one of my favorites for years. I love his praise music and have most of his albums, so when he put Baltimore on his tour, I wasn’t going to miss it. He did not disappoint. Houghton was a plus; in fact, he almost stole the show. This was a highly worshipful experience for me.

BEST SPORTS MOMENT: The Alabama Crimson Tide dominating Florida in the SEC Championship game. While the final verdict on the success of my Crimson Tide this season will not be determined until next week, the SEC Championship game was the high point of the season so far. In an up and down season–with a new quarterback no less–they had their best game, thoroughly controlling the game from beginning to end. A close and related second: Mark Ingram winning the Heisman trophy, a great story in and of itself and a first for the University of Alabama.

BEST POLITICAL MOMENT: Meeting Mike Huckabee. The former Governor of Arkansas came to speak at a leadership event for our organization in the fall. Getting to meet him personally, and knowing that he is friends with my extended family in Arkansas, gave us a few special–and personal–moments to reflect on family and what God is doing in and through his life. By all accounts, he will be a formitible candidate in the future, if and when he decides to run for office again.

BEST UNEXPECTED EXPERIENCE: Hosting two teenagers from Spain for the month of July. These two young men, Sebas and Jaime, were connected to us by International Mission Board personnel in Europe, and we welcomed into our family with open arms. They were impressive young men and a delight for us to enjoy as we introduced them to America for the first time.

BEST FAMILY MOMENT: Christmas together. All five of us, including Sarah, were able to celebrate the Christmas season together for the first time in three years. The moments and experiences were precious and special to us all. Starting with the largest December snowfall in Baltimore history and finished with a time of worship together at our home church, the ten days were filled with memories for a lifetime.

Well, that’s it for me…now it’s your turn. Anyone out there who wants to share here about their opinion on what was “best” in 2009? Send your comments in and I’ll post them.

And here’s a tip of the hat to each of you for listening to my rants and raves during the previous months. Thanks for helping me grow and learn, as we together move into the future. 2010, here we come!





Fridays are for Friends & Family 12.11.09

11 12 2009

We’re back with another interesting post about news and views around the Internet. Let’s start this week with a post from Sheila Walsh, once of the 700 Club and more recently of the women’s writing/speaking circuit. Yesterday she published a post entitled “The Five Most Bizarre Questions I was Asked in 2009.” Since Sheila connects with lots of people all over the world, I suspect she gets a variety of surprising questions. You can check out her thoughts on the “most bizarre” by clicking here.

Bob Roberts Jr. posted earlier this week a new weblog entry that makes the concept of “missional” more practical for most people. In a post called “How to Bring People Along Missionally,” Roberts acknowledges the oft-given concern that getting churches to “be missional” is a lot harder than talking about it. Here he outlines six things each of us who are pastors and leaders of churches can do to see “missional” become more of a reality in our churches. This link will take you to his post.

Kent Shaffer’s website is entitled “Church Relevance,” and he is currently asking for input from you and me on how to make his site more, well…relevant! Kent admits that he wants to be more effective at meeting your needs, but also in attracting more sponsors, who help make the site possible. I mention his site today, because he has attracted a number of sponsors who offer “FREE STUFF” to help you in ministry. You can find them posted on the left-hand side, about halfway down this page. And while you’re there, why not fill out his reader’s survey?

Here’s a shout out to my favorite football team, the Alabama Crimson Tide! They certainly looked impressive last Saturday as they won the SEC Championship in an overwhelming manner against the defending national champion Florida Gators. Next up, they will face the Texas Longhorns for the National Championship on January 7th in Pasadena, California. It should be a great game! In anticipation of that, this Saturday the Heisman Trophy, annually awarded to college football’s best player, will be given. I am predicting that Mark Ingram from the Crimson Tide will become the first ever winner of the award from the University of Alabama. You can read about the Heisman race here.

Finally, JibJab.com is a humorous and entertaining site, in the past mostly focused on political parodies. However, at Christmas time they have created a way for you to become an elf (with up to four other people) and save it (for a cost) or share it with others temporarily. To view the one I created, click here. Then hit the “Make Your Own” button to get started on yours. Enjoy the fun!





Fridays are for Friends & Family 12.04.09

4 12 2009

This Friday I’m on the road, attending the national winter meetings of the State Directors of Missions, a title I inherited as a part of our relationship with the North American Mission Board of the Southern Baptist Convention (SBC). Today Ed Stetzer spoke about “high capacity church planting denominations,” and as usual did an exceptional job. I had the privilege of being with Ed two weeks ago also, as a part of the national church planting fellowship.

One of our national young SBC leaders, Matt Chandler of The Village in Dallas, Texas, underwent brain surgery today and needs our prayers. Matt has been a respected preacher and advocate within our tribe for multisite churches, among other things. You can read what the elders in his church wrote this week about the church and his surgery by clicking here. Pray for wife Lauren and three children, as well.

Tiger Woods has dominated the news this week and his “transgressions” (his word, not mine) has been placed under significant media scrutiny. His life lessons have been discussed in a recent post by Pastor C.J. Mahaney of Covenant Life Church in Gaithersburg, Maryland. You can read Mahaney’s comments here.

On a lighter note, my favorite college football team, the Alabama Crimson Tide, will be playing in the SEC championship tomorrow for the second year in a row. Mark Ingram, Julio Jones and the rest of the team are once again underdogs to Tim Tebow and the Florida Gators as they enter the game, though some in the media are picking them to upset the Gators tomorrow. Roll Tide, Roll!

Finally, many of you–like me–probably use Twitter for social media connections too. One of the more recent Twitter applications out there now makes it possible for you to send your “tweets” in Klingon (yes, that’s right; the made-up language, which started on Star Trek years ago). You can use the application by clicking here. And until next time: ghaj Dun juS! (that’s Klingon for “have a great weekend!”)